Tuesday, December 13, 2005

What I have learned in 2005!

Reading though my emails I noticed a e-mail from a good friend of mine as I read I noticed that she had some really good pointers and stuff I have also learned this year.. So take a look these are the things I have learned, Some is also quoted from her as well.

It is so easy to be negative about past mistakes and unhappiness and blame others. Our past is a series of lessons that help us become better people by our mistakes or seeing others mistakes and not doing them. Relationships we entered, stayed in, or ended taught us necessary lessons.

How some of us have emerged from the most painful circumstances with strong insights about who we are and what we want. Our mistakes... Are necessary. The frustrations, failures, and often times attempts at growth and progress? Necessary too. All the steps we take on the way, we learn. We went through everything because we need to, this is what makes us who we are today.

As I always say everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by good or bad luck its all for a reason. Without these events in life, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere or no one. If someone hurts you, betrays you , or breaks you heart, forgive them. For they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to who you open your heart to.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them.

Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again.

Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you either.

You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it. Take the chances in life and make the best of it.

Love the person you are with or want to be with, take one day at a time and live it the best you can thats all you can do. Make yourself and the person your with happy, don't be someone your not. Show everyone you know and the world that you can be the best. Don't let anyone get you down, you are you and thats what makes people look up to you and happy to be around you.

I could go on and on but I will end here for now.
Have a great day!

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